It's been a long time since I've been here. It wasn't deliberate, I promise. It started with losing one phone. Then using another and not using it long. Now I'm using my current phone and hope to keep writing. Shout out to all those that followed this blog even when I haven't been writing here. … Continue reading On having more kids.
My son is older than my daughter with 14 months and in the last 8 weeks there have been lots of changes. My husband works 13-16hours so that means I get to be with the kids all the time. I'm currently a stay at home mum, fashion designer and a network marketer. Here are questions … Continue reading Life with two kids under two
It's been such an emotional upheaval in Nigeria. From the protests by youths most especially to end police brutality which encompasses bad governance, to the Lekki massacre on the 20th of October 2020, to the hoodlums destroying properties, down to hoarded Covid-19 palliatives by government officials. It's been a hard time for many Nigerians. I … Continue reading #EndSARS: the last two weeks in Nigeria and my thoughts.
Someone on social media talked about her friend who when asked how she was fairing after giving birth launched into a litany of complaints. She wasn't happy that her career had to take the back seat. And she didn't like that people will make her feel guilty for thinking this way. And I couldn't agree … Continue reading On Motherhood and Getting Back into My Career
Today makes it exactly three weeks our daughter was born. And I celebrate the one year anniversary of this blog. Whoop! Previous blog posts have shown how I was scared about delivery but God showed up as he always does. The surgery was so fast. I expected a longer time but this was even faster … Continue reading Birth Announcement + other stories.
In a few days we'll be seeing our second child and I only just got excited about her. Honestly! I've been so scared about the birth process and the pain. Especially when I know what to expect since I only just had our first child last year. The months of pregnancy have also been filled … Continue reading The Supernatural God!
I have less than two months to go carrying our second child. It's been a tough year. Still is. 2020 is/was the year that pulled me physically, emotionally and psychologically and by the grace of God I'm going to end this year on top! Yasssssss! I've had to grow up mentally; take adulting seriously and … Continue reading Current musings and lessons I’ve learnt while being married for 20months.
It's been awhile I talked about motherhood. I'm going to be talking about it more going forward as it's at the core of everything happening to me right now. So I've already mentioned that we are expecting baby no. 2. When I finally broke the news to my mother in law and my mother, they … Continue reading How I stopped breastfeeding my 10month old.
It's been awhile I typed here and it's not for lack of something to write. It's that my heart has been full. I found out in late February that I was pregnant for our second child when I was almost 10weeks. Yes, 10weeks. I didn't have any obvious symptoms. In fact I just went for … Continue reading So far.. so good or is it?
I haven't been able to get a job for a long time. Almost two years. I've applied to several companies. I kept doing it on and off and then I got pregnant and barely applied. Postpartum, I still kept up with applications. In the last one year I've gotten called twice for tests and interviews … Continue reading The Victim Mentality